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Danis story
Most people were blind to my sadness. I hid it from everyone including myself. People only saw the strong, happy mask I wore. Underneath that mask, I had no idea just how unhappy I was. Unknowingly, I had created a reality that was codependent on others' happiness. I had formed the belief that my husband, my children, my family, and my friends' happiness was the way for me to feel happy. I truly believed I could make others happy. I just had to figure out what they needed.
What about me
The sadness was all-consuming. It felt like too much and eventually, I lost the ability to hide it. My marriage reflected my internal struggles, but I clung to the story of "happy ever after" and the belief that if my family was happy, I would be too. The truth of my internal environment was mirrored back to me in the external environment. I just could not see it. I started to realise my life would always be unhappy if I was not willing to face my reality, and make a change. Even though I was scared, I started to listen to the voice that said…what about you? When I started listening to my heart, it initiated a chain of events that led me to Coherence Healing, ONEO.
After my first session with Cornelius, my life remarkably changed course because I decided to be all in and find myself. Somehow, I had a distinct knowing that I was waiting for just such an event, so I could begin to discover myself. Being vulnerable and seen was beyond hard for me. Acknowledging and accepting that I was filled with guilt, grief, and deep sadness began to shift these emotions. I realized I felt unseen and heard because I could not see myself. This realization opened me up to the pain I was afraid to feel and allowed shifts in my consciousness and perception to begin. My energetic body awakened, my nervous system began to heal and clear, and my life was changing. I chose my happiness, and my worthiness because the truth is true and a connection to my own heart allows an embodiment of peace that comes from within.